Francis Chan's Thoughts On How To Make Marriage Work

"From day one our marriage has been about making disciples. What bonds us is that we're on this mission together. It's all about God's kingdom. As I seek God first, the other stuff will happen...When we put the emphasis on our marriage first, we're just like everybody else out there who just wants a happy marriage, but God says seek the kingdom first and watch what happens...when you and your spouse get over yourselves, and the two of you start focusing on making disciples, that's when God says 'Here I am...Seeking and serving, I really believe that is the answer to our marriage...'"